Well at first I was contemplating to go into the update of the adoption since its a very 'unique' situation. However, I will still share it as I may help someone else or give insight or someone can give me insight, encouragement, etc.
So the court date that was set for December was crazy. They baby lawyer came out to my home and basically stated that its best for the BABY for her to stay with me in a safe environment than with the birth mother, etc etc. After the actual hearing, they extended it to early 2015 just for the lawyers then afterwards, try again with the parental termination rights.
As stated before, the birth parent has brain/mental damage and can not care for self. However, as with anyone one still wants her child... I understand. At the same time, I am on the other end of wanting to adopt. We do get along and she even stated numerous times that she wants our baby with me period. So yeah.. it can be frustrating and stressful. But I had to give it to the Lord and keep doing what I'm doing. My adoption case worker reassured me that there is no need to loose rest over that if push come to shove she will have the court grant me 100% custody and go from there. When she told me that and I saw the genuine sincere-ness and from the lawyer I know that we are in good hands.
Therefore, I truly believe that what we desire that's meant never comes easy. This is a pure example and I am a fighter and determined person. I did not let that damper her Christmas neither.. I probably went overboard but so worth it as its items to help her learn and play at the same time. I am blessed to be able to do so.
As the year coming to a close, I do NOT regret anything. Nothing that I had to endure, pain, happiness, etc is worth regretting. I am happy, babygirl is happy and spoiled rotten. I am looking for a positive new year and I wish everyone reading a awesome, blessed, safe one. And for those still in waiting, it will happen. Hang in there. Even the most odd situation may work for you as it is for me. Never say never! Thanks for reading my blog and stay tuned for more to come! :0)
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